August 26, 2012

Beach Babe

Clara and I joined the rest of my family last week in Holden Beach. (Dustin had to work and spend the weekend in training. We missed him big time.)


Besides a major meltdown at the gate prior to boarding our first flight in O'Hare (I know everyone else in line was praying they weren't seated next to us), Clara was a great travelling companion. She nursed or slept through most of the four flights and charmed our fellow passengers with big smiles. She also had blow-outs both ways (one I got to clean up in my lap mid-flight)-- so thank goodness I had extra outfits on hand. I would never choose to fly alone, but generally people are very helpful when you're juggling a stroller and diaper bag and baby.



Maybe it was that fresh humid ocean breeze- or perhaps my dairy-free diet really is working- but Clara's reflux improved drastically during our trip. I hope it was a permanent change. I'm willing to endure my cheese-less lifestyle as long as needed if it means a much happier baby!




















Dad spent an afternoon making us each tie dye shirts and Clara a vibrant collection of onesies.



I really didn't want to leave. As exciting as living in Chicago seems, I seriously miss the laid-back friendly South. Chicago still stresses me out. I needed this little break to rejuvenate. So I relaxed and slept better than I have in months (thanks to the lack of sirens and rowdy Cubs fans outside my window).


When she was saying goodbye to Clara, my littlest sister, Brooke, told me I didn't deserve such a sweet baby. (I think this comment was prompted by the argument we'd had over the ipod on the drive to the airport.) So I told her she didn't deserve such a sweet niece. While I know she was joking, the truth is: sometimes I agree.

August 19, 2012

firsts

First legitimate workout post-baby with my new jogging stoller. (I know, it only took me 3 1/2 months. I've gone on a jog here and there and being doing pilates- but babies have a way of knocking you out of any routine.) Why did I wait so long to get this thing? I thought I could live without one. I can't. Not here in the city. So we sold our still-new City Mini and traded up for a Bob. Love it already!


Saturday morning we took it for a stroll along the lake. It was the most beautiful day I've yet to see in Chicago.






First official date night post-baby. With a real babysitter (grandma doesn't count). Our friends watched Clara for the evening while we snuck out to celebrate our anniversary (6 years on the 15th!) with some sushi.



The place was directly beneath the El stop so dinner included a bit of rumbling. But the sushi was fantastic.




And coming up this week, First plane trip. Just Clara + Me. We're joining the rest of my family at Holden Beach while Dustin spends another week torturing kids in the dental chair. (Sorry babe, I know we got the better end of this deal.) I'm a bit anxious about flying with a baby (breastfeeding in public, running between gates with a stroller, diaper bag, and 3-1/2 month old...). Nevertheless, I can't wait!

...and just because it's so darn cute... my two loves on our way to church this morning:


August 12, 2012

dimples

finally caught on camera


we have no idea where she got them from... didn't know dimples run in the family

please, never stop smiling baby.


August 10, 2012

Our Place

A tour of our charming old townhome (we occupy the lower level and have access to the creepy basement) in Chicago. When I say old we're talking late 1800's (according to our neighbors)!



We're across the street from a massive cemetery. Homeless people love to wander down our street from the shelter north of the cemetery and sit on our porch and sing to themselves in the middle of the night. But otherwise, the location is pretty great. Within walking distance of Wrigley field, cute cafes and boutiques line our street. We're a mile from the shore/"beach". Shopping in the city (especially with a baby) has proved to be trickier, but I'm close enough to a Target, Trader Joes, Costco, and all the essentials places!


It's not modern but we feel like we got a pretty lucky (central air, washers/dryers/dishwasher, and square footage are all hard to come across winthin budget in Chicago).


Front entry hall...



In the living room looking into the dining room master bedroom. Those curtains are our bedroom "door". They block out light and noise and offer privacy. Or not.


The first night we slept with our bed/heads in the bay window (that faces that busy street) but after waking up to every honk and conversation that went on outside we shifted things around. It's still loud but we manage some sleep.


Our fireplace. It's kinda pretty. But it's fake.



Baby furniture/toys are starting to take over our lives.



Our tin ceiling.


The hallway that separates the living room and kitchen. Clara's door is to the right off of the living room (more on that later). The bathroom door is on the left of this short hallway.


Only one bathroom. Fewer toilets to clean isn't a bad thing. Although the white tile was clearly a bad call.


Ah, the kitchen. Not particularly good looking but it has all the essentials (minus a garbage disposal).



The door to the right leads to the basement. The door on the left to the spare room (where a lovely futon awaits all welcome guests).


The spare room with the trendy wood panelling.


It's our closet, office, library, ironing room, and guest suite.


To below. We're going to have to get a gate before Clara begins moving or she's going to have a long plunge to take.



And finally, the basement. It's honestly creepy. I'm grateful for the washing machine but I get nervous every time I have to change a load of laundry. The basement is actually huge, but I keep to my dimly-lit little corner. There is also a dungeon-like back entrance from outside with creaky stairs from the basement to each level and the attic. Like out of a horror movie.



Coming soon... Clara's room! It's still under construction, but we'll hopefully finish it within the next few weeks. Baby girl finally has a real crib to sleep in!

August 9, 2012

goodbye cheese

Baby girl has had a rough go lately and was diagnosed with GER (gastroesophogeal reflux). She had "silent reflux" (gagging but not spitting up) when she was brand new but lately there is more and more milk coming up, combined with a bunch of other troubling symptoms: constant congestion, drooling, choking/sputtering, hiccuping, stridor/wheezing, coughing/sneezing, and frequent explosive abnormal diapers (I'll spare you the details). Several nights she's screamed inconsolably when I began feeding her before bed. She often thrashes around and arches her back while eating, sometimes refusing to finish a meal. So not just a little spitting up.


Many of her symptoms point to a cow's milk protein allergy. So her pediatrician and I agreed that it would be worth cutting all dairy out of my diet (I want to continue breastfeeding if at all possible) to see if she improves. So starting today I say goodbye to milk, cheese, butter, yogurt, cream... and every delicious and wonderful thing made with dairy. You'd be surprised how many foods that excludes. Yeah, this will be a hassle and will make cooking/dining out much more annoying, but I'm trying to focus on what I can still eat... eggs, avocado, dark dark chocolate, sushi. So I'll survive. We'll start with a 3-week trial and if it helps, I'll probably be dairy-free as long as I'm breastfeeding (most babies outgrow milk allergies by 1-2 years old thankfully). I'm already going into pizza withdrawals but it's definitely worth the inconvenience if it makes a difference and we have a happier, healthier baby. (Makes me feel just a little guilty about eating way too much of this last week- talk about a diary bomb!)


Overall she's still a sweet, happy, little girl. Some days are better than others. It has definitely made breastfeeding a more frustrating experience (sometimes I feel like I'm hurting her), especially since I finally felt like I finally got the hang of things.


Here's a short clip of Clara after her first immunizations this week (before the tylenol wore off and she started screaming)... including the best giggle we've caught on camera so far (she LOVES that lamb- it never fails to make her smile):




If anyone has experience with a baby going through this or has eaten diary-free and can offer advice, I'd love to hear from you... a favorite brand of dairy-free butter or cheese substitute? Fill me in!


August 3, 2012

3 months

Clara @ 3 months + a few days...


We haven't been to the doctor for a check-up (yes, she missed her two month, and will be late on her 3 month as well, I'm a terrible mother...) so I don't have official stats to post just yet *(UPDATED BELOW)...

but we did have a quick visit due to some recent severe reflux and over a week ago she was just shy of 13 lbs!


this girl now holds her head steady
   rolls from tummy to back
   "talks" to mama, strangers (sometimes we wonder if dad fits into this category), and inanimate objects
   blows bubbles and drools and smiles nonstop
   sleeps avg. 9-10 hours at night before waking to eat (10 1/2 is the current record)
   grasps and "plays" with toys
   chews her hands or anything near her mouth
   is often more interested in the lamp, the ceiling, the wall, anything other than eating (although she does still eat plenty)
   has started taking short but somewhat predictable naps
still sucks (not literally) at bottles and pacifiers (the latter of which we've pretty much given up)
   loves sitting on the front porch watching city traffic
   and giggles!!



(she does own pants- I'm just too lazy to put them on at home since I feel like I'm changing diapers nonstop!) 



UPDATED STATS (at 3 months, 1 week):

head: 16 inches (50-75%)
height: 24 inches (50-75%)
weight: 13 lbs. (50-75%)